August 05, 2009

Ghosts of a Girlfriend's Past

Disclaimer: This story is about one of my girlfriend's and I felt like writing it in a first person format so don't get confused. Enjoy reading. No names have been mentioned so as to protect their identities.

No, its not the movie. Its just my own personal ghosts resurfacing again. I just started believing that Karma is a Bitch. Yes she is, me am always feeling so good with myself cos I really dont like giving "My Guys" the "it's Over statement" so I do what I know best in such situations, runaway. I start avoiding the person, stop taking calls, bringing up excuses not to see the person. I continuing doing all these till the point is driven home. I always tot yes these guys are sharp, they get my drift easily. I started getting on with a guy I liked and then my own personal ghosts started resurfacing. Yes, every guy that I ever pulled my Chicken Tactics on started calling and remembring my existence.
The first phone call came in when I just started feeling my new guy. He called to tell me that he was just going thru his fonebook and he saw my number. That was when he remember we never called it off, we just stopped talking(People pls dont they mean the same thing). I didnt even knw what to tell him , I just by-passed the thing and told him I was busy I would call him later. So like a trigger all others started contacting me through facebook, all sorrts of messengers, text messages, phone calls and what nots. I was so confused, I even started having problems with my new guy. I just don't know what to do. if it were just one guy it would have been easy but five... mahn. I'm sure karma is there laughing at me. The main problem is I dont want to enemity to develop between me and any of these guys. I don't want to loose my guy over this. Karma, I promise never to leave loose ends anywhere if I get throught this.

PS: Pls any help on how to deal with this without creating enemity will be appreciated. I av also tried to convince her to tell em straight buh she's saying its easier said than done.
TIBA

6 comments:

leggy said...

r u kidding me?
is she kidding me?
biko,she should kukuma tell the guys that its over.

TaioFierce Ameen said...

According to her, she doesn't want enmity with d guys, i told her she cant av it all... was helping her seek advise in case dere's anoda alternative to her telling them....

RocNaija said...

This is funny..
She doesn't have to tell them it's over if she doesn't want to..
If the guys sef haven't moved on in all this while and they didn't contact her, then they aren't worth dating..
She should just update her facebook profile with pics of she and her new dude loving up..

Easy..

TaioFierce Ameen said...

Exactly, very gud idea i ll tell her dts d way forward......lol

Chari said...

tell her to take off her panties without touching them...

TaioFierce Ameen said...

lol..... i ll tell her to try dt...